NEW YORK, Oct. 5 /PRNewswire/ -- Several people close and sympathetic to
basketball player Kobe Bryant gave Newsweek a detailed account of what they
believe happened the night of June 30 that led to him being charged with
raping a 19-year-old concierge at the posh Lodge & Spa at Cordillera in
Edwards, Colo. In the October 13 cover story: "The Kobe Bryant You Don't
Know," (on newsstands Monday, October 6), National Correspondent Allison
Samuels goes behind the ball player's image and examines his troubled road to
a rape charge.
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Samuels reports that sources close to Bryant say he first met the blonde,
girlish-looking concierge when he checked into the hotel, where he planned to
recuperate from knee surgery. The two began flirting almost immediately, and
the woman gave him a personal tour of the grounds, including the gym and
sauna. Later, Bryant called the front desk to order some food, and the woman
delivered it to his room. Bryant called again to complain that his whirlpool
bath wasn't working; the young woman offered to check out the problem herself,
and Bryant invited her to come back to his room when she was off work. She
returned, and the two embarked on a consensual sexual encounter.
But early on in the encounter, Bryant became anxious that he wasn't using
a condom, afraid that he might get the young woman pregnant, according to the
sources close to Bryant. At some point, she started yelling for him to stop
-- which he did, the sources say -- but she kept crying hysterically and was
insistent on leaving. Bryant started to panic and tried to keep her from
leaving until she calmed down, the sources say. He attempted to put ice on
her eyes, which were swollen with tears, and pleaded with her to stay and
talk. But she insisted that she had to go back to the concierge desk. Bryant
asked her to return, and she told him she would. She never did. The next
thing he knew, the county sheriff was asking him to go to a local hospital and
provide a DNA sample.
A friend of the accuser tells a very different story. This friend, who
requests anonymity, tells Newsweek she had spoken with the accuser and the
accuser's ex-boyfriend. According to the friend, [the accuser] was "attacked
as soon as she [the accuser] walked through the door." There was "aggressive
groping with no warning," the friend says, "followed by sex."
Whatever happened between Bryant and his accuser the night before his
surgery, he clearly didn't think it would have the consequences it did,
Newsweek reports. The next day, Bryant played checkers in the lobby with his
bodyguards, and he was on time for his surgery appointment the next morning.
After Bryant had returned to the hotel, still foggy from sedatives, police
contacted him and requested that he provide a DNA sample at an area hospital.
Accompanied by his bodyguards, but no lawyer, Bryant began rattling off random
bits of information to police, including, oddly, memories from his childhood
in Italy, people close to Bryant say.
The prosecution is expected to introduce photographs showing injuries the
6-foot-6 athlete allegedly inflicted on the young woman, which people familiar
with the case say include bruises on the neck and vaginal tearing. District
Attorney Mark Hurlbert has said he expects to spend $45,500 on expert
witnesses, including specialists on strangulation, sexual assault and trauma.
The prosecution may also introduce a videotaped statement from the accuser and
an audiotape of statements Bryant made to Colorado authorities the day after
Family and friends say Bryant has been so focused on his career on court,
and so sheltered from social development off it, that he may not have picked
up some necessary tools in his journey from boy to man. "It was clear that
Kobe just didn't understand the way things work on a team," says a former
Laker. "He came in wanting to shine from the very beginning. He didn't go to
the older guys like most younger guys usually do. They wait and learn from
After games on the road, instead of hanging out with the team, he would
sit in his room and watch videos. Sometimes it was "Willie Wonka & the
Chocolate Factory," which his mother would slip into his bag when she packed
it for away games. But he would also catch movies his parents never let him
see at home, R-rated stuff like "Scarface" and "The Godfather." "They had
kept him from anything negative, violent and overly sexual," says Rebecca
Tonahill, who became friendly with Bryant during his rookie year. "They
thought they were doing him a favor, but they really weren't. He needed to
know these things, if just for a reference point when hanging with the boys."
"Kobe is the kind of guy who has to learn the same lesson again every
season," says a former teammate. Bryant's ball-hogging and headstrong play
grated on captain Shaquille O'Neal so much that at one practice he finally let
loose and knocked Bryant to the floor. The two went at it and had to be
broken up. "I think he really thought he could take Shaq," a player who
witnessed the incident says, laughing. "I have to give him that: he has no
fear of anything."
"I would never get into trouble like Mike Tyson," Bryant once declared to
some fellow Lakers. In fact, Kobe may have missed out on some valuable career
advice. NBA players, like rock stars, have lots of groupies, and it isn't
unusual to find plenty of action after the game. But there are also rules of
conduct off the court, and players usually swap the do's and don'ts over
dinner after a game. Rule No. 1: Let your crew approach the woman first, to
size her up. One baller makes his bodyguards spell out in plain language to
potential one-night-stands what the night's activities will entail. If she
hesitates, she's turned away. Rule No. 2: Give nice parting gifts. One NBA
star is known to travel with a treasure chest of diamond tennis bracelets to
hand conquests in appreciation.
Not that Bryant needed tennis bracelets back then. After things fizzled
with singer Brandy, who he dated for a time, he developed crushes on several
other black starlets, from supermodel Tyra Banks to Destiny's Child members
Kelly Rowland and Beyonce Knowles. He even sent roses to Venus Williams when
she won her first Wimbledon championship. But there were no real sparks. "He
would get frisky with me and wanted to go all the way, but he knew what 'no'
meant," says one of the stars he dated. "He understood it clearly. I can't
see him now not knowing the difference."
When Bryant fell for 16-year-old Vanessa Laine, his family was
disappointed and his teammates didn't know what to make of her either. "We
all knew he got so attached to her because he needed a friend, someone to hang
out with," says a fellow Laker. "I'm not sure if it was love, or he was just
happy that someone accepted him with no complaints. He didn't understand that
she was a kid and she was in awe of him." When Tonahill asked Kobe what he saw
in the 16-year-old, he responded, "She's pure, and innocent, and not jaded by
When Kobe proposed to Vanessa with a seven-carat diamond engagement ring
and announced that she would be moving into his Pacific Palisades mansion, the
family exploded, a person close to the situation said. They pointed out to him
that Vanessa and her mother were spending a great deal of Kobe's money on
Rodeo Drive, and that the Laine family was in tough financial straits. They
pleaded with Kobe to take it slow, or at the very least to get a solid
prenuptial agreement. It was a dicey subject to broach, given that Kobe's
father, sisters and brother-in-law were all working for him in various
capacities. Angered and insulted, Bryant withdrew. "He was so torn by that
situation, so upset about the directions he was being pulled," said Tonahill.
It wasn't just his family who disapproved of the marriage. Laker coach Phil
Jackson encouraged him to hold off for a few years. Reportedly, Michael
Jordan and a couple of other athletes made calls to Bryant suggesting that he
take it slow, or at least get a prenup. "He just said, 'I can make the money
back,'" says a player who tried to advise him. "He was like, 'She can have
it, because I'm young and I don't see it ending like that way anyway.'" His
agent, Arn Tellum, was so frustrated by Bryant's refusal to get a prenuptial
agreement that he stopped representing him.
The summer that he and Vanessa announced they would be having a baby,
Bryant began loosening up, thanks to the influence of three bodyguards he'd
hired in 2001. As he distanced himself from his family, the bodyguards became
the posse he'd never had. They encouraged him to go bungee jumping, to drink
and to hang out. In short, to be the playa he'd never been, Newsweek reports.
When Natalia was born last January, Bryant seemed to be at the top of his
game both professionally and personally. But things didn't sound heavenly at
home. Vanessa hadn't attended a game since late fall; everyone assumed it was
just because of the baby. Bryant's teammates noticed him interacting more
with women on the road, but thought nothing of it, given his choirboy
reputation. In fact, Bryant had been drifting away from his wife for some
time, friends say.
By March, Newsweek has learned, Bryant was in contact with a divorce
lawyer. When Vanessa learned about the meeting, people close to Bryant say,
she had to be rushed to the hospital. Hoag Memorial Hospital in Newport Beach
confirms only that an "adult woman" was brought to the hospital by ambulance
from the Bryants' home in Newport Beach and was placed on advanced life
support. Paramedics say there were only three people at the Bryant home. The
"adult woman" was taken to the hospital and treated. Paramedics say they saw
no evidence of a crime.
With a preliminary hearing set for Thursday a friend of Bryant's says he's
doing fine. "I've spoken with Kobe several times since this happened," says
his friend, Steve Stoute, a former music executive he met during his second
season. "He's holding up well. He's a strong guy with confidence in himself
and the character not to let this bring him down. He has a focus that's
amazing, and he's able to weather anything without it affecting his
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